So very sad that Jem is not with us in body. That he was not there to enjoy all of his family and friends together. So very much loved and truly respected was Jem that church and ‘get together’ venue overflowed. That people overflowed with remembrances of joy. So very clearly brave was Jem. So very proud would Jem be in how brave his family are and especially Sophie who portrayed not a bit of nerves in a so very special eulogy. So many regrets we have that we did not see him and you as much as we should. “Busy lives” are so poor a reason. So much love we send to you at this time and always. So anything we can do, please ask. Shaun, Jules, Fay, Alix & Niamh